AITA for not wanting my fiance to stay the night at his parents every week. My fiancé likes to spend a night at his parents house once a week and I find it very bizarre?
It leaves me alone at the house and he has been doing this for awhile and it never really bothered me until we moved in together. His older sibling in his 30s brings his gf there every week for days at a time also even tho they have their own place. I’ve always just found it a little weird, I totally have no problem with visiting thats normal and important, but to have your own place and still insist on staying over is just very weird to me. His parents also live very close by so it’s not like it’s a hike to get there and make sense to spend the night.
His parents always call and ask when he’s coming over and maybe I just have a different relationship with my family but once you move out of the house you’re not expected to stay over. I visit my parents often but never sleep over anymore. My siblings moved out years ago and not once have they stayed over unless for a legitimate reason and my parents have never been hurt or offended by this. We are very close with my parents and my siblings visit often and call my parents everyday so this has nothing to do with me not being as close with my parents.
I just find it weird and almost immature. I’ve also never met anyone that does this.
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